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Wednesday Faves

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  I took last week off I was in Napa. And then I was recuperating from Napa, ha, ha! 1) The Sinner Season 3 I was a hold out on this series because I just thought it would disturb me. I finally decided Season 3 looked interesting so I tried it on the plane to Napa.  It hooked me!  I finished it on the way home and enjoyed it so much I binged Season 1 last weekend.  I’ve got Season 2 downloaded for my trip to Auburn this weekend. 2) Navy Gabor Sandals Not only are these sandals comfortable, they are SO so cute! I love them! 3) Beautycounter Skincare These made the list awhile back, but they are definitely making the list again! I tried a different skincare recommendation and got a big zit that lasted for a month! I haven’t had a zit in 5+ years! So I pulled my Beautycounter back out and my face (and me) are so much happier!  I’m sorry I strayed, ha, ha! 4) Arkansas Razorbacks Cropped Sweatshirt (and the cutie girl and cutie dog pictured) Hayley bought this sweats...

Wednesday Faves

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  Here are this week’s Faves: 1) Shiny Gold Skull  This fun Halloween decoration has a cool story.  My dear friend, Kim, texted me (she knew not to call) from Hobby Lobby with a photo of this guy.  She said, “I thought of you!” I said, “Buy me two!” and now they grace my home during Halloween season and every time I see them I think of Kim.  Every year.  It’s awesome! 2) Rechargeable Hand Vac I saw this from a blogger I follow and it’s AWESOME for vacuuming out shoe shelves (which is the reason I bought it). I was surprised by how well it works! Hayley is going to give it a try in her car tomorrow.  Hopefully it works! 3) Purse Strap Knock-Offs While these aren’t quite as cute as my friend Shari’s beaded purse straps, they are pretty darned cute!  And for 1/3 the price, I’m okay with them! Hayley loves hers too! We figured we wouldn’t wear them all that often, so when we did we would still have a unique cute fun purse! They aren’t beaded, but they...

It’s Wednesday Faves time again!

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  I’m pretty excited about my Faves this week! 1) Puttery Mini-Golf, Cocktails and Cuisine The Puttery was so much fun!  We went there for our Grow Group Supper Club last night. Highly recommend for a double date or a game night with friends! I must say, my putting game was spot on last night! Ha! 2) Skeleton Party Guest It’s that time of year, Halloween, my FAVORITE holiday to decorate for.  I love the drama! Expect to see a Halloween item each week in my Faves.  This guy has been with us for several years and I love him! When you walk through the house and see him out of the corner of your eye you jump just a little. 3) Anthropologie Honeycrisp Oakwood This is a scent for my Pura Wall Diffuser. I have struggled finding scents that I like for the diffuser. This one is awesome for Fall! The scent comes in other forms such as candles, read diffusers, etc. 4) Beaded Collegiate Purse Straps My daughter Hayley and I are obsessed with these. The Baylor one is being sporte...

Wednesday Faves

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  Hello. Here are my Faves for the week: 1) Fancy Kitchen Faucet We have been redoing our kitchen and I went crazy over this faucet!  It’s fancy, but I love it.  Makes me happy every time I use it.  It’s the little things, I guess… 2) Kerastase Densifique Shampoo & Conditioner Kerastase does it again! I swear, I like every single thing I order from them!  This set is supposed to provide a bit of density and volume to your hair, and it truly does! It makes this old head of hair look and feel a little better! 3) Squirrel Brand Sweet Brown Butter Cashews These were a surprise find on Amazon Fresh for my stepdad’s birthday party food. These little nuts were the hit of the party! They are so so good! 4) Nevis, West Indies It seems like forever ago, but Walt and I took a trip to Nevis late August.  We stayed (quarantined) at the Four Seasons and it was the perfect vacation for us!  It was so relaxing and so beautiful! Every time we told someone we were g...

Wednesday Faves

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  Coming at you from home sweet home this week!  Here are my Faves: 1) Big Blue Pots  I have recently wanted to upgrade our drive up appeal and I love these new big blue pots! Hoping I can keep these babies alive… 2) Anthropologie Hand Towels I saw these in an IG ad and I’m always a sucker for leopard. A pop of color is an added bonus!  I am loving them in our powder bath! 3) Leopard Sun Hat Speaking of leopard, I am loving this leopard sun hat. After a recent basal cell removal, I have been trying to wear sunscreen and a sun hat more often (my red nose and cheeks are heat rather than sunburn), and my dear husband makes fun of my big floppy hats (one in particular he calls me Minnie Pearl), so I opted for this ball cap type hat, and he seems kind of okay with it. Ha, ha!  I love it! 4) Skeleton Wine Bottle Holder I saw this on IG too (apparently IG knows I’m a sucker!) and if you know me you know I love love love Halloween decor.  I’m going to start decorat...

Wednesday Faves

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  I am out of town, so I’ll keep this short and sweet!  1) College Football Dog Collars (and very cute dogs) I only buy my dog collars from one place on Etsy, so when college football season comes around, the dogs rep the schools!  I either need one more dog, or a creative “house divided” collar. My gal on Etsy said she couldn’t do house divided unless I found the specific ribbon, so I guess it’s a third dog! NOT! 2) Soap Dispensers  I love these dish and hand soap dispensers. Another Etsy find (via Instagram). They are so cute and fun hanging out in my kitchen. 3) Natural Ice Cherry Chapstick I buy this stuff in bulk! I have gotten my entire family using this chapstick. It’s a perfect consistency and I have it in drawers all over my house, my purse and my travel bag. Will never be without it! 4) I’m Kind of a Big Dill plate set in I had forgotten about these, tucked them away when we moved, but felt my dining room was missing something. Then I remembered these and t...

Wednesday Faves

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  It’s that time again: Wednesday Faves! Last week we were in Nevis and man oh man, there were some pretty awesome “Fave potentials” from there! Maybe I’ll do a whole Faves post from our trip. 1) Beautycounter Think Big All-in-One Mascara This is my current favorite mascara. It really makes my lashes look full and does not irritate my eyes at all. I am loving it! 2) Ownloop Watchband I see they now sell versions of this watchband on Amazon or at Apple, but I actually got my from the Ownloop website. A lot of watchbands bug me, especially around the clasp. This one has no clasp and slips on like a bracelet. The only downside for some people (although it does not bother me) is that I wear it so that it’s a bit looser which affects the heart rate monitor.  I just can’t stand tight watchbands. 3) Haystack Laundry Room Art I recently purchased this from Wayfair for our laundry room after we painted the cabinets.  My original inspiration was a fun loud wallpaper, but I just did...

Wednesday Faves

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I am on a responsible vacation this week, so no haters! But I still have some Faves. 1) Fancy Like Ok, I had this on my Faves’ list, then took it off when everyone became obsessed with it, then put it back on when my daughter Hayley told me I should…I am obsessed, stop in my tracks to watch the Applebee’s commercial when it comes on (but I still don’t think it will persuade me to try Applebee’s again). 2) Rechargeable/Portable Mister Fan This thing I LOVE! I have had it for several years, but kind of forgot about it.  I keep it in my travel backpack, it would have come in handy in Scottsdale.  I remembered before this vacay, but still forgot to pull it out and use it the first day. Oh my, yesterday we brought it to the pool and even put water in it. I love it!  It definitely is a life saver when faced with heat. 3) Lazy Susan Table   Don’t own this, but MUST figure out a similar option for our home. Walt liked it so much he even tried to find a source on the bottom o...

Wednesday Faves

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  Back with more Faves after a couple of weeks off. 1) Beautycounter Countermatch Sleep Recovery Cream It’s a long name, but good stuff!  I’ve been using this at nighttime and the next morning my face feels smooth and soft.  I am loving it! 2) Magnolia Home Water Garden Paint I am Gaga over this paint color!  I was looking for the perfect teal (not too blue) for my laundry room cabinets, and this is it!  I was nervous about painting the cabinets but from the first bit of color going up, I loved this color!  Makes doing laundry fun! 3) Old Navy Maxi Dress This dress is a bit of departure from what I usually wear, but I am loving it!  4) iPad Case w/Keyboard It’s early on in the game, but I am enjoying using a keyboard with my iPad. There’s something about typing on a physical keyboard, ha ha! Hope you have a great week!  I love when I stay on top of my Faves, hopefully won’t slack off going forward.

Wednesday Faves

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  Got some Faves for you this week! 1) Gatorade Zero Glacier Cherry Powder So yummy and hydrating! Although it spoils me and makes my not enjoy regular water as much. 2) Bath and Body Works Flannel Room Spray This is my favorite of all room sprays. BBW only makes it available in the late Summer for Fall. I go way overboard and stock up for the year. 3) Drink Table I just picked up this little drink table so the people that sit in the middle of the sectional have a place to set their drink. It’s so cute! 4) Ted Lasso No explanation necessary. Ted Lasso is greatness. I’m just sad we are all caught up! Have a great week!  

Wednesday Faves

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  So, last week I had a little basal cell removal procedure on my nose, so I didn’t do Faves. I highly recommend my MOHS Surgeon if you ever have that need. 1) Cold Brew Mason Jar Coffeemaker  My son is home this month studying for a very important medical exam and he wanted me to get him some iced coffee. I found this iced coffeemaker and decided to try it. He loves it! He’ll take it back to Houston and he and his roommates will get a lot of use out of it. 2) Ice Pack I had to ice my nose after my procedure and I remembered these cute little ice packs I bought a few years back from (I think) The Container Store. Hey, if ya gotta ice an injury, ya might as well be cute doing it! Oh, and an added bonus, the ice from the new ice maker was perfect in it! 3) Doterra Diffuser I love this diffuser! It has a charging base and can be carried all over the house! Leave the cord behind! 4) Santal Diffuser Oil Someone online recommended this as a favorite of hers, it was inexpensive and f...

What I’m loving this week…

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  These are some things I’m loving this week: 1) DIFF Sunglasses- During a BOGO, I got these two pairs of sunglasses from DIFF Eyewear. Love them both! I was hard pressed to pick just one for the Faves. My daughter prefers the bottom pair, but I like the top ones because they are so substantial! 2) Wahoo Heart Rate Monitor- Lately I’ve been working out more and wanted to check in with my heart. This arm band style heart rate monitor got great reviews and has paired seamlessly with our Peloton. It’s really helped me gauge what’s going on during my workout. Very eye opening in a good way! 3) True & Co True Body Lift V Neck Bra- This is THE most comfortable bra! I only have two slight, ever so slight cons: the straps are a little wide, so they may show with certain tops, and sometimes I think it’s a little hot. Those are minor issues and I love this bra! 4) Furry Throw- I have tried many many throw blankets for our family room. I love these because they are furry, the perfect size...

Wednesday Faves

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Here is what I am loving this week: 1) Dr. Teal’s Glow & Radiance This bubble bath smells so good and is very bubbly! I love it! 2) GE Profile “Sonic” Icemaker I purchased this during Amazon Prime Deal Days. It’s kind of pricey, but all of the bloggers I follow rave about it. I’m liking it so far, once we understood how to use it. At first it was making this horrible noise and I thought: Oh boy. Waste of money. But as long as it has water in it all the time it seems to be happy.  3) Old Navy Maxi Dress This dress is saving me this summer! It’s cute and cool and comfy! I wish they’d restock in some other colors, but they are probably about to come out with Fall clothes 🥵 … 4) Young Living Aria Difuser While it is super pricey, I am in love! I have been wanting it for a long long time and finally pulled the trigger. The “smoke” and lights are mesmerizing and an added bonus (that causes 🙄 from my family) is the spa sounds that come from it! I LOVE it! Have a great holi...

Wednesday Faves showing up late!

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  Got some house vibe Faves today! 1) This is my favorite bench ever. We have four of them in our house (two are grey). We have used them for coffee tables, at the end of beds, and most recently I moved this one into our closet. Walt commented that he really liked having it in there. I would have to agree. It’s not super wide (but wide enough that my 73 lb dog can fit comfortably on it) and it fits perfectly in our closet. 2) This robot vac is always a Fave! I love this thing. It is so satisfying emptying out the dust bin! And right now, with this heat, my one dog is shedding like crazy so I run the vacuum at least every other day. I get to empty the dust bin a LOT! 3) I have been on a merry go round of rugs for the family room, to the point where my family keeps saying: is that another new rug? I finally think I found the winning rug ! Everyone that comes in the house comments on it, and not just to get me to stop buying rugs 😂! 4) I love love love these flameless candles ! They ...

Look at this! Faves before noon!

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  I can’t believe it, but I’m actually on my Faves game this week! 1) I know everyone is sick of Peloton, but I love it for so many reasons! This weekend, while visiting friends in Longview, I did not have access to the bike so I did Peloton Strength or Yoga Classes each morning in my room. As my friend says: Gotta get my blue dot every day! 2) We played this game, Sequence , this weekend. It was so much fun (even though we were exhausted because we stayed up VERY late and the guys were playing in a golf tournament)! 3) I am all about a good smelling house! Found a new diffuser scent called Dream On  and similar to the scent found in the Westin Hotels, and I love it! What makes me even more happy is that Walt commented on it and how much he liked it (he’d never say he loved it, ha). 4) Last but not least, on a very rainy Sunday afternoon, my friend and I watched Notting Hill . Oh my goodness how I love that movie! I hadn’t seen it in years! The quirky characters (Spike for the...

Back from vacay!

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  Took the week off while in Scottsdale, but I took away several Faves from there! 1) I am SO excited about this Fave: I got to meet the Loon! I follow this food blog called howtofeedaloon  after I found their best chicken salad recipe ever, and last night, while out eating with the Cynthias, I saw them walking up to our restaurant! I started saying: It’s the Loons! It’s the Loons! One of the Cynthias waved to them for me (she knew I wanted to) and they came over and talked with us! Super nice guys, one is an awesome cook and the other one (the Loon) an awesome photographer! (And they live in the same neighborhood as Cynthia) Seriously, their recipes and food photography are both SO good!  2) This Byredo Le Chemin   body lotion   from the Phoenician was yummy! It smelled awesome and was the perfect consistency (I’m a lotion snob). I’m hoping to find it online, if not, I’ll just have to plan another trip to the Phoenician! 3) Another Kerastase product makes the F...

Wednesday Faves

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  How about some Faves! It’s all about the home vibes this week. 1) I love the YouTube scenery and music on my TV. The other day I turned on this Coral Reef Aquarium  as we were going to dinner. You can hear the water bubbling like a real aquarium. Walt loves it! I told my friend Cynthia about it and she loves it too!  2) I got a new Kitchen faucet . It’s super nice, I love it! 3) I have been really enjoying our Patio sofas . Finally comfy seating for watching TV or enjoying a glass of wine with friends.  4) I recently went to the tile store for some kitchen tile, but this tile  for the bathroom stopped me in my tracks. I love it! I’m not an all white kitchen or bath person. I love a bit of variety, so I love this! Are you having home vibes this Spring?

Happy Friday!

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  Happy Friday! I’m heading into the weekend with some Faves that make me happy! 1) For my birthday I received some money from my mother in law and I bought these Home Depot pots  for my patio. Aren’t they beautiful? 2) Who does not love Jergens Original Scent Lotion ? I do think the formula is better now, and I’m happy about that because I have always loved that scent! 3) I am loving this Go-To Top  from Cabi. It’s a bit of a departure from what I usually choose, but I’m glad I took the chance! I get so many compliments when I wear it, I don’t know if it’s the color or the style, but it is a great shirt! 4) I am obsessed with my new light fixture  above my breakfast table. Not sure that Walt is sold on it yet, but I am obsessed! Have a great weekend, and celebrate those mommas!

Wednesday Faves from an OLDER Woman

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  So, I skipped last week as the birthday celebrations kept me quite busy. This week you get Faves from an older woman: me. 1) These lightbulbs  have changed the vibe in and around our home! When we moved in almost two years ago, all the lightbulbs in our house were the LED Daylight bulbs. I felt like we lived in a warehouse or research lab. I was afraid it would cost a small fortune to change them all out. LED lights have come down in price, thank goodness, so I did some research and changed them out. I’m not quite finished, but the transformation has been wonderful, and so worth it! 2) This Fire Coffee Table  makes my heart sing! I love love love it! I did change out the lava rocks that came with it for clear glass to match our fire dining table, and it looks so good! 3) Do any of y’all have one of these As Seen on TV Grabber Thingies ? Walt got it in our Christmas White Elephant years and years ago, it was meant to be funny, but we LOVE this thing. We actually use it a...

Slipping in on a Saturday

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  Better late than never!  1) Yes, yes, I’m really posting a Probiotic . I’m not shy about it. It has really helped me. Highly recommend! 2) Newk’s   for the win! I thought I had a nail appt yesterday (thus the different colored thumbnail) but they didn’t have me down and asked if I could come back in an hour. I didn’t really want to go home, and I had been wanting to go to Newk’s ever since I went with Hudson back at Auburn. So I walked down from the nail place and had a delicious lunch and encountered some very friendly people. Made waiting an hour for my nails fly by! 3) I am loving  AT&T TV ! My stepdad has been playing heck trying to watch TV in his condo. He was used to Direct TV with the individual boxes and that was not an option when he moved. We finally settled him in with AT&T TV. It’s working out wonderfully for him! My husband Walt had been wanting to try it (we had been using Hulu Live) and I wanted to get it so that I would be familiar with it ...

And...we are back to Friday

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  So, I tried to do Wednesday Faves on Wednesday, but it seems I’m more consistent with Wednesday-ish. Or Friday. 😂 1) Of course the Baylor Men’s Basketball  gets a Fave nod two weeks in a row! They are National Champs! They are so good! Sic ‘Em!  2) I love my Crate & Barrel Velvet Comforter . I call it, “Elvis in Hollywood”, and I love it! It’s SO yummy. My sassy husband says (with grand arm motions): It like envelops you, and wraps around you! Ok, Walt. 😂 3) I am obsessed with Buying Alaska , and aforementioned sassy husband tells people: Ask her about her plans for moving to Alaska...who know?! It could happen! 4) This thought  cracked me up because it is SO true! Can you relate? Have a great weekend!

Wednesday Faves ON Wednesday! Sic ‘Em!

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  I love it when I actually do my Wednesday Faves on Wednesday! I almost dedicated this week’s Faves to people, and I may do just that in the next few weeks, but for now we are going to go with these! 1) Can you spy that tiny little pill cup  in the center of my photo? I believe it was cut from a bottle. While it is supposed to hold soy sauce (or something of the like), I am using it as a hack for a pill cup. I take two pills first thing in the morning, and this little idea has actually changed my morning (and my attitude). I put the two pills in the cup at bedtime so I don’t even have to think about it in the morning. I know, it kind of sounds silly, but it has been game changing! (And I’m not even embarrassed about it!) No more mix ups or totally forgetting to take my pills. Try it! 2) I love these Summersalt The Do-It-All High Rise 7/8 Leggings ! I think I’ve tried every legging under the sun. These have the perfect amount of “hold you in” and coverage. And, BONUS: I’m not ...

Friday Faves = Wednesday Faves this week!

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  Here we go, let’s do some weekly Faves. 1) First up is the Pura Diffuser . I have 5 of these all over the house. I can’t really do candles anymore (they sadly sting my eyes), so I’ve been using these. I LOVE that they are controlled from my phone, so I can set them while I’m away and come home to a great smelling house. I can also set up a schedule for them. The only “con” if you will, is that I haven’t found “my scent”. I’m quite picky with smells, and I’d love to find something similar to The Hotel scent I diffuse in regular diffusers. It smells so good. They do have the popular Volcano candle scent. I’ll find “my scent” eventually, and then it will be perfection! 2) Here we go again with another Beautycounter product. This time it’s the All Bright C Serum . Not only is the bottle bright and happy, but it brightens my skin as well. Someone once told me that consistency with your Vitamin C serum is what yields results, and I really do believe that. This one is a winner in my boo...

Thank you Mom for so many Faves!

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  This week I wanted to reflect on my momma. She gave me innumerable Faves, but I picked out a few that are current Faves.  1) I’m pretty sure my mom’s favorite color was Gold . The more the better! I, too, love gold. So, this week I got gold nails as a subtle nod to her. I think she would love them! 2) Cold Chicken Rice Pilaf Salad  is a recipe my mom gave me years ago. It is a favorite in our house. I have made it several times during the Pandemic. It’s wonderful to have on hand for Walt’s work from home lunch hours. I made some for my stepdad last week and he loved it as well! Thank you mom for this great recipe that serves so many! 3) I love lotions! I have a lot of favorites, but Vaseline Intensive Care (Original Yellow Bottle)  is always at the top of the list. My mom used this lotion as long as I could remember. Every time I use it I think of her.  4) My Leopard Ugg’s  were a gift from my mom a couple of Christmases ago. Still love them on cold cozy ...

Let’s do some Faves!

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  Let’s get right to it! 1) I am loving this whole Beautycounter Countermatch Set ! Like the whole set! I got suckered in on FB, but I love it! 2) I have been using this Twill Boat Storage and Laundry Tote  for years. It has transported things to and from college, on road trips, and lately back and forth to my mom and stepdad’s condo. I have gifted these, and accumulated several. Hands down the best! 3) The good ol’ Happy Planner . I have tried many, many planners. This one is simple and perfect for me! 4) I told y’all I love Kerastase! This Kerastase Serum  is awesome for my “ends”. And it smells so good I don’t even need perfume! This post is short and sweet, but I do love all of these Faves! Happy Wednesday!

They said 2021 was gonna be better...

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  I feel like I have a LOT of lemonade sitting around from all of the lemons life has been giving us lately. But, I’m not going to complain. We’re all in this together, and I am grateful for so much.  1) I know the last time I shared a hack some of y’all loved it! So just wait til you hear about this hack for my Keurig with these felt furniture pads . I’d give credit for it, but I can’t remember where on IG I saw it. If you stick felt pads underneath your Keurig it slides back and forth on the counter easily (like it’s on a pull out shelf). Slide it out when using it or filling it with water, and slide it back when not in use. I did this to both of our Keurigs and it is FANTASTIC. It’s the little things... 2) I am an excellent grilled cheese maker. I thought it was because of my secret ingredient (Havarti cheese), but now I think it’s my skills. During the snowstorm/power outages I sent Walt to the grocery store for white bread and Havarti cheese. He came home with artisan bre...

It’s a good day! Because of the little things...

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Today is a good day. Oh sure, there are things I could complain about, be down about, but I’d rather concentrate on the good things! The little things. And these little Faves make my days better! 1) I told y’all last week that I am LOVING the Kerastase brand of hair care. This week I am gushing over this Shampoo and Conditioner  from the Resistance line (I love it so much I even used my “cutting the tube” hack to get every last drop of the conditioner). I had a hair appt yesterday and my hairdresser said: I am SO pleased with your hair! It looks the healthiest it has looked since you started coming to me a year and a half ago. Woo Hoo! I still have quite a ways to go, but that was a ringing endorsement for me!  2) I love this scrunchie watchband from ANDI . It’s so comfortable. Sometimes the silicone watchbands irritate my skin (especially when working out). This one never irritates my skin. 3) Most mornings I drink one cup of coffee. On the days I want two cups, I find the ex...

A Day Late, But Ya Know...Rolling Blackouts

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I’m trying to be consistent about Faves, despite some challenges. In our area, we have been relatively lucky. We have been on “regular interval” rolling blackouts for the most part. Last night (Wednesday) was our longest blackout from 6:10 pm til 10:49 pm. Frozen pizza was no longer an option, but Mac N Cheese to the rescue!!  1) The Tiger Documentary  on HBO was very interesting. I felt sad for Tiger, then found myself rooting for him by the end.  2) I have been loving this  Modere Liquid Collagen . My hair feels thicker. A blogger I follow raved about it and she was not wrong! 3) While I am addicted to the Kerastase hair products, this Relaxing Scrub  is beyond awesome! I was a little concerned about using it because it does look like an exfoliating scrub, but it made my hair feel amazing! It felt completely different and very healthy after I used it. I plan on only using it once a month (it is pricey but should last forever), I love it!! 4) My trusty Labelmak...

Hey, Remember Me?

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  So, it’s been awhile...remember when I used to be so consistent with my Faves? Life kind of got in the way...my last Faves post was Oct 28th. I felt guilty having Faves when people were hurting, my mom has been sick, people are losing their jobs, etc. Not to mention, being stuck at home, I was sick of everything! But I have missed doing my Faves, and some sweet friends and family have missed them too. When my daughter told me her friend in Australia had asked where the Faves had been, I decided to bring them back! Not sure who all actually reads this, a lot of people just look at the photo.  Without further ado: 1) Your Honor  is a limited series on Showtime that my daughter told me about. She has not actually seen it, but heard it was good. My husband and I binged it, and when we got to the “last” episode we were like: are you kidding?? That’s no ending.  I looked it up and it said there was no Season 2 so I was scratching my head. I sent a scathing text to my dau...